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to all the lost souls out there
  • It is alright to look back and reminisce what you had. It is alright to look back and recognize what you did, and think about what you should do. It is alright to know the reasons behind why you did certain things, made certain decisions, felt certain ways. Humans are flawed; we self-justify, we feel, we lose control. As long as we are aware of it and are willing to learn and improve, it is completely fine. As long as we are not delusional. 

    It is alright to feel angry, or to feel like you want to blame someone (even yourself). Let yourself feel. Let your feelings stay until it leaves. But be mindful, try not to do things impulsively. Welcome your feelings, be aware of them, and let them go.

    Then, just little by little, accept. Accept that things happened the way they did. Accept them. If they are something that is beyond your control, then just let it be. Recognize it as a fact. Try not to make connections or draw conclusions from things you can only assume. Accept it. And if there is no use taking it with you, leave it behind.

    It is alright to hope if it makes you feel better, but don't cling on to it. Don't circle your life around something fleeting. Something that is not under your control. Nothing is guaranteed. No one can see the future.

    If things are hard, try to live in the present if you can. Focus on making yourself feel better. Don't do things because you want certain reactions from people. When you feel unloved, remember that that might be because you were looking for love from someone who can't give you that. You have people who love you, just the way you are. People who stick with you, and grow with you. Don't take their love for granted in exchange for the love you have to beg for. It's hard, I know. Sometimes you don't understand why a person have so much power over you. It is often because you care a lot about this person, and you love them a lot. You gave them your power, and don't blame yourself for that; you gave them the power, remember, that also means you can always take that power back. It belongs to you.

    Recognize how fleeting and conditional love is. Nothing is permanent. Not the happy moments, not the sad moments.

    It is alright. This too shall pass.

    You did well.
     
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